In a recent episode of "The View," Whoopi Goldberg did not mince words when addressing Rachel Bilson's comments about prospective romantic partners' sexual histories. The discussion was sparked by Bilson's remarks on her podcast, where she expressed that she'd find it "a little weird" if a man in his 40s had only been with a handful of sexual partners.
Goldberg, 67, expressed her confusion and disagreement with Bilson's perspective. "I'm sorry, I think it's very odd that you're concerned that he's had sexual partners - any sexual partners. Why is it your business?" she questioned.
Goldberg further elaborated on the traditional views of men and women's sexual histories, noting the shift in societal expectations. She pointed out that while men were traditionally expected to have multiple partners, women were not. "Now, that has been shifting, and young women have been bitching about, you know, 'Why are you telling me what I should be [doing?]' Now, it's happening [the other way around], and you're mad. I don't understand," Goldberg added.
Goldberg's main point was clear: if both partners are happy and enjoying their time together, why should one's sexual history be a point of contention? She advised, "If he's happy with you and you're having a good time, why are you bitching?"
Bilson, 42, did acknowledge the potential unfairness of her statement during her podcast, "Broad Ideas." She speculated that a man might have been in long-term relationships, which she deemed "fully respectable." She added, "It's not fair for me to say, either way. ... A person is a person."
This isn't the first time Bilson has been open about her views on sexuality. In previous podcast episodes, she's discussed her favorite sexual positions and even revealed personal details about her sexual experiences. Notably, she mentioned not having an orgasm during sex until she was 38, a revelation that raised eyebrows. However, Bilson later clarified that her statement was not a reflection on any of her past partners but rather on her own journey of self-discovery.
The debate between Goldberg and Bilson highlights the evolving conversations around sexuality, relationships, and societal expectations. As these discussions become more mainstream, it's evident that perspectives will vary, but the importance of understanding and respect remains paramount.
