Jennifer Lopez is reportedly facing turmoil in her marriage with Ben Affleck, alongside challenges in her professional endeavors. According to insiders, the renowned actress and singer is experiencing a significant downturn in her career, a situation she attributes to the dynamics of her marriage with Affleck.
The couple's relationship, once a beacon of Hollywood romance, is now said to be teetering on the edge of dissolution. "Jennifer and Ben's marriage is on the verge of collapsing, and she has expressed her frustrations quite openly," a source close to the situation shared to Globe.
Lopez's discontent stems from what she perceives as Affleck's lack of support, especially in light of her recent self-funded project, which included an album titled "This Is Me … Now" and a documentary chronicling their love story. Despite her investment of both time and $20 million into these ventures, they were met with disappointing reception.
Insiders close to Lopez suggest that she views Affleck's influence as detrimental to her focus and overall success. "She's convinced that the project's failure is largely due to Ben being a dead weight," an insider revealed.
Reports indicate that Affleck's involvement, or lack thereof, particularly during the promotional phase, was less than satisfactory to Lopez. "At the documentary premiere, his enthusiasm was notably lacking, which was a source of embarrassment for Jennifer," the source added.
The underlying issues in their marriage, however, might stem from deeper, more fundamental differences. "Jennifer is vibrant and seeks public adulation, whereas Ben is more reserved and cautious about media attention. Their personalities are quite mismatched," another insider explained.
Affleck's personal struggles, including his ongoing journey towards sobriety, are also said to be a point of contention. His commitment to co-parenting his children with ex-wife Jennifer Garner adds another layer of complexity to their dynamic. Meanwhile, Lopez's involvement in the personal affairs of Affleck's friend Matt Damon and his wife, Luciana, has reportedly strained relationships further.
Amid these challenges, both Lopez and Affleck have sought the assistance of a therapist to navigate the rough patches in their marriage. "Jennifer's illustrious image and self-perception as a leading star have been marred by these recent failures, which she attributes to Ben," the source concluded.
Meanwhile, Lopez is reportedly deeply disturbed by the serious allegations facing her former boyfriend, Sean "Diddy" Combs, and is eager to distance herself from any association with him. These revelations come amid an ongoing legal case involving Combs, with Lopez's name being brought up in relation to a 1999 nightclub shooting incident that occurred during the time she was dating the music mogul.
Lopez and Combs's relationship, which spanned from 1999 to 2001, has come under renewed scrutiny due to the lawsuit against Combs. An insider close to Lopez shared with Life & Style magazine that the star reflects on her time with Combs with significant unease. "There were many wild moments with Diddy, and it gives J. Lo the creeps to think that she was with him for so long," the source disclosed, also noting Lopez's discomfort with Combs's alleged infidelity during their relationship.
The source further revealed that Lopez's decision to stay in the relationship was driven by a desire for "personal security" despite her unhappiness. "She wasn’t happy in the relationship," the source stated, highlighting the complexities of Lopez's feelings during their two-year romance.
Lopez's reaction to the recent allegations of rape and sex trafficking leveled against Combs has been one of horror. "She is horrified by all of the accusations," said the insider. This sentiment is especially poignant considering that Lopez and Combs had once discussed marriage before ultimately parting ways. "She and Diddy had talked about marriage at one point, but she left him for a reason. Now people want to know why and what she saw," the insider added.
Currently married to actor Ben Affleck, Lopez is described as wanting nothing to do with her past relationship with Combs. "She shudders whenever she thinks of her past romance with Diddy," the source conveyed, emphasizing Lopez's desire to sever all ties with her former partner. "She doesn’t want to be associated with him at all anymore."
Reflecting on her past decisions, including her relationship with Combs, Lopez reportedly acknowledges the missteps she has made along the way. "Jen’s the first to admit she has made some very bad decisions," the insider remarked. Now, looking at her life with Affleck, Lopez is said to feel "super grateful" for the path her life has taken.
