In a reflection of the stringent protocols that govern royal life, Prince Harry and Meghan Markle, after their fairytale wedding in 2018, found themselves compelled to return an estimated $8.9 million worth of wedding gifts. This action was guided by royal protocols aimed at preventing any semblance of obligation or undue influence from gift-givers.
Under the stringent royal guidelines, members of the royal family are prohibited from accepting gifts that might appear to compromise their duty or independence. "The fundamental principle governing the acceptance of gifts by Members of The Royal Family is that no gifts, including hospitality or services, should be accepted which would, or might appear to, place the Member of The Royal Family under any obligation to the donor," the guidelines state.
This decision was not unique to the Sussexes but applied to all royals, ensuring their impartiality and integrity. Instead of accepting personal gifts, Harry and Meghan requested that well-wishers contribute to various charities, such as CHIVA, Crisis, Myna Mahalia Foundation, Scotty's Little Soldiers, and StreetGames, among others.
Meghan Markle, reflecting on their love story in her speech at their wedding reception, featured in the documentary 'Harry & Meghan,' said, "Once upon a time there was a girl from L.A. - some people called her an actress. And there was a boy from London - some people called him a prince. All of those people didn't fully get it because this is the love story of a boy and girl who were meant to be together." Her words captured the essence of their relationship, often likened to a modern fairytale.
The couple's decision to forgo personal gifts underscored their commitment to public service and charitable causes. It also reflected the realities of royal life, where public perception and adherence to protocol often take precedence over personal preferences.
In their ongoing journey, the couple's commitment to public service and charitable causes remains evident. Meghan, in an interview with Variety, shared, "So much of how my husband and I see things is through our love story. People love love. I'm not excluded in that sentiment." This sentiment guides their creative endeavors and philanthropic initiatives, demonstrating their dedication to making a positive impact.
