Meghan Markle's introduction to the British royal family was filled with unexpected turns and enlightening moments, as recent revelations have shown. From her first meeting with Queen Elizabeth II to a humorous mix-up involving Prince Andrew, the Duchess of Sussex's early interactions with the royals were both challenging and memorable.
In October 2016, shortly after their relationship became public, Meghan and Prince Harry planned a visit to Sarah Ferguson, Duchess of York, at Royal Lodge in Windsor Great Park. However, the couple was taken aback when they learned that Queen Elizabeth II would also be present, returning from church. While Meghan was seemingly unfazed by the prospect of meeting the monarch, cheerfully remarking, "Fun! I love grandmas," Prince Harry knew the significance of the occasion.
To prepare Meghan for the meeting, Harry emphasized the importance of addressing the Queen correctly. He instructed Meghan to use "Your Majesty" during their initial exchange and "Ma'am" (rhyming with 'ham') in subsequent interactions. But the most crucial piece of advice, which both Harry and Sarah stressed, was: "Just whatever you do, don't talk over her." This particular sensitivity, though rarely discussed, was paramount in Harry's mind.
The meeting, which lasted about 20 minutes, went off without a hitch. Meghan's curtsey was impeccable, earning her compliments from all quarters. Harry proudly recalled in his memoir, "Everyone complimented Meg on her curtsey. So good! So deep!"
However, the encounter had a humorous twist. As the meeting concluded, Meghan inquired about the "Queen's assistant," referring to the man who had escorted the Queen to the door. Harry clarified, "That wasn't her assistant. That was her second son, Andrew." This revelation left Meghan surprised, as she hadn't recognized Prince Andrew, the Duke of York. Harry amusingly added that Meghan "definitely hadn't googled us," referencing claims that Meghan had extensively researched the Royal Family before meeting Harry - allegations she has consistently denied.
The incident underscores the complexities and nuances of navigating royal protocols and the importance of understanding and respecting traditions. It also highlights the challenges faced by outsiders entering the royal fold, even with guidance from insiders like Prince Harry.
