The two-year relationship of Taylor Swift and Joe Alwyn is so far in a smooth flow, as it shuns away from social media, where Taylor Swift reveals that this might be the trick to a lasting relationship. From Joe Jonas to John Mayer, Taylor Swift's relationships was never private and has even become known for writing songs about the ghosts of boyfriends past. But since her 29th birthday, the Reputation hitmaker doesn't need other people's ideas of her current love life and has eventually turned off the comment section of her social media account.
One of the reasons why Taylor Swift's relationship with his past boyfriends did not work is that she is an "approval seeker" and being one means she has been almost and always affected with what other people will say, whenever they saw her posts on social media. Little that they know, their comments and sometimes bashes have greatly affected even the relationship of their celebrity idol. With this, Taylor Swift has come to a point to address this by making her 30 life lessons, one of which is to avoid unnecessary posting of her personal life and personal events on her social media account. Today, what fans can see only are almost exclusively posts official information on the account, such as promoting music and other projects and occasional moments of Taylor Swift's cats Meredith and Olivia.
To elaborate further of Taylor Swift's 30 life lessons she managed to learn before turning 30, the essay which was published in Elle magazine is a way to explain how Swift has been managing herself lately. This is also a way to remove all negativity that people may sometimes put on their heads with a simple comment because it is social media and there's freedom of speech. Taylor Swift was also brave and sweet at the same time to confess how she really feels on her tours and how she truly cares of the safety of her audience and fans, something that she has feared to happen when the Manchester Arena bombing and the Vegas concert shooting has occurred.
Considering all these life lessons, Taylor Swift is now applying a lot of it on her relationship with Joe Alwyn and although followers of the We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together songstress are not at all updated, but only a few public events together or private outings such as going on hikes, Swift and Alwyn seems to be better and happier. This has built more self-esteem for Taylor Swift and away from the judgmental and prying eyes of some who they thought are better in commenting and giving unsolicited advice but in turn, has already destroyed a person or a relationship.
